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    15 November

    标准

    人在这个世界上为什么总有统一的要求,统一的标准?何谓好,何谓坏,何谓忠,何谓奸,何谓优,何谓劣,似乎都有一个标准。有标准也罢,为何总喜欢要求向着好的标准努力,要求人改正缺点向着完美努力?

     

    世界难道不正因为人的性格迥异,相貌各异而显得多姿多彩吗?试想一下,哪天当真全天下的人都变成了统一的标准,每个人都成了那么的完美,那会是一个怎样的社会啊?这不是天天都在照镜子吗?

     

    人似乎都有控制欲,总喜欢要求其他人按照自己的模式来做事,也喜欢按照自己心中的形象来塑造别人,对越亲近的人这种欲望越强烈,有这个必要吗?如果全世界的人都只有一个“完美”版,那这个社会还有成败美丑之分吗?还会有五彩斑斓的世界吗?还会有酸甜苦辣的人生吗?来这地球一趟,总不能失望而归吧。

     

    如果曹操不是奸诈狡猾,恐怕连命都保不住,还会成为一代奸雄被后人津津乐道吗?如果武则天不是手段狠毒,恐怕要在寺道里郁闷而死,还会成为中国唯一的女皇帝而名留青史吗?有时,缺点也不全是坏事。何谓成功何谓失败,留给自己去判断有什么不好?

       
        来这地球走一趟,当然也要懂得适者生存的道理。只是在这个道理中,有人把“适”理解成追求,“生存”理解为成功,而有的人把“适”理解成体验,“生存”理解为经历。在我看来,二者没有对错之分,区别仅在于理解不同罢了。
       
        不管怎么理解,好好珍惜来地球的这次旅行就好。何必苦了自己,又勉强别人,对吧?

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    zhiyin liwrote:
    looks like lone time haven't come here...
    but anyway~~hi~~~
    add me !!!!
    1 June
    鸿艳 梁wrote:
    好久没上来了 ,最近可好?
    PS. 你的SPACE更新得也够慢的。。。
    26 Dec.

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